If you’ve ever noticed your pet pacing, whining, or acting restless when you’re stressed, you’re not imagining things our pets are deeply connected to our energy. They don’t just listen to our words; they pick up on our emotions, body language, and overall vibe.
Just like we can sense when a room feels tense or calm, our pets feel the energy we bring into their space. And when we’re carrying stress, anxiety, or frustration, it can easily transfer to them.
Pets are naturally in tune with the energy around them. Whether it’s excitement, sadness, or nervousness, they absorb what we project. If you’re feeling overwhelmed or anxious, your pet can mirror those emotions back to us. Showing signs of restlessness, clinginess, or even avoidance.
Check in with yourself first
Before assuming your pet’s behavior is “random,” ask yourself: What’s my energy like right now? If you’re rushing, tense, or distracted, take a deep breath and reset. A calm pet starts with a calm you.
Create a peaceful environment
Your pet’s surroundings play a huge role in their anxiety. Try soft music, a cozy space, and a predictable routine to help them feel more secure.
Use intentional touch
Pets respond to gentle, intentional touch. Simply placing a calm, relaxed hand on your pet while breathing deeply can help them settle. Slow, soothing strokes or a comforting presence can make a big difference in reducing stress.
The more we become aware of our own energy, the more we can create a peaceful, supportive space for our pets. Anxiety doesn’t have to define their world or yours.
Christine Barfield is an Intuitive Pet Healer and Guide. She helps your pets find more calm, balance and connection through her Signature PETs Method. She specializes in supporting pets with stress, anxiety, and overall well being, creating a more peaceful life for both you and your pet.
Christine absolutely loves being part of Happy Healthy Women, Newmarket, ON, Trailblazer.
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With spring around the corner, nature exemplifies the beauty of renewal. The days have more sunshine, fresh flowers are making their way up through the earth, and the air feels full of new possibilities. The transformation we see around us during springtime is also an invitation and a reminder that we, too, can shed the old, embrace change, and create something new.
Renewal isn’t just about change—it’s about realignment. It’s about clearing out stagnant energy, revisiting our intentions, and remembering that abundance is already within and around us. It’s a chance to reconnect with who we truly are so we can expand, grow, and create with conscious awareness. When we show up from that space, we naturally bring more vibrancy into our lives and the lives of those around us.
🌿 You’re feeling stagnant or restless in your energy or daily life.
🌿 You have the urge to declutter—physically, emotionally, or spiritually.
🌿 You’re feeling disconnected from your true self and purpose.
🌿 You feel a strong desire for expansion, growth, and/or new opportunities.
If any of the above resonates, it’s time to create the space for transformation.
1️⃣ Clear & Cleanse Your Energy
Just like spring cleaning your home, your energy field needs clearing too. Try Reiki, breathwork, or sound healing to help release what no longer serves you.
2️⃣ Set New Intentions
What do you want to call in for this next chapter of your life? Peace, abundance, creativity? Write it down, visualize it, and start aligning your actions with it.
3️⃣ Reconnect with Nature
Nature is one of our greatest teachers if we pay attention. Walk barefoot on the grass, sit in the sun, or jump into a body of water. Allow Mother Earth to help you transmute any dense energies into harmonious ones.
4️⃣ Listen to Your Inner Wisdom
Spring is a time of awakening. Pay attention to any intuitive hits, dreams, and/or signs guiding you toward your next steps. Your inner wisdom knows the way. Let it lead.
5️⃣ Embrace Growth
Change can feel scary for many of us, especially if you have a dysregulated nervous system. Let yourself flow instead of forcing it. Trust that everything shifting in your life is happening for you, not to you.
Are you ready to create your new life from a place of soul alignment? As the world around you begins to blossom and bloom, give yourself permission to do the same. Tap into the energies of the season: renewal, unlimited possibilities, conscious creation and expansion. Then, take a deep breath, set your intention, and allow the energy of new beginnings to flow through you.
Rosaly Didonna is a Reiki Master, Spiritual Coach, and the founder of The Purifying Place in Long Beach, CA. She guides women through deep healing, soul alignment, and transformation using Reiki, sound healing, Human Design and spiritual coaching. Through her work, she helps clients reconnect with their soul’s truth, release energetic blockages, and step into their highest potential. Connect with her for in-person and distance healing sessions, Human Design readings, women’s circles, and 1:1 spiritual coaching at The Purifying Place.
Optimizing Your Chances of Pregnancy with PCOS
Although PCOS can impact fertility, many individuals with PCOS successfully conceive. Below are some lifestyle and treatment approaches that can support your metabolic, hormonal, and reproductive health:
1. Maintain a Balanced Diet and Stay Active
Many individuals with PCOS struggle with weight management due to hormonal and metabolic imbalances. A nutrient-dense balanced diet, regular physical activity, and lifestyle modifications can improve fertility while also reducing pregnancy complications such as pre-eclampsia and gestational diabetes.
2. Track Ovulation and Your Fertile Window
Understanding your menstrual cycle, ovulation day, and fertile window can help increase your chances of conception. Reliable tracking methods include:
3. Prioritize Quality Sleep
Deep, restful sleep plays a crucial role in:
4. Manage Stress by Implementing Mindfulness Techniques
PCOS patients can experience stress, anxiety, and depression, which can worsen symptoms by increasing:
Stress management techniques such as journaling, deep breathing, and meditation can help support your overall well-being.
5. Consider Targeted Nutritional Supplements (Under Supervision)
Certain supplements have been shown to regulate menstrual cycles, improve insulin sensitivity, and enhance metabolic health in PCOS. These include:
For optimizing fertility, CoQ10 and melatonin may support egg quality. It is best to always consult a naturopathic doctor or your healthcare provider to determine the best approach for you. If you have PCOS and are trying to conceive, you are not alone. With the right lifestyle modifications and treatment strategies, you can support your reproductive, metabolic, and hormonal health. Let’s work together to optimize your fertility!
Dr. Ishani Patel is a board certified Naturopathic Doctor who has a clinical focus in women’s health, hormones, digestive health, and autoimmunity. She is dedicated to helping her patients determine the root cause of their health concerns, help them find balance in their life, prevent disease or a worsening of their health conditions, and help them live their optimal state of health.
You can connect with Dr. Patel through her website drishanipatelnd.com, by email at ishanipatelnd@gmail.com, or reaching out to her on Instagram @drishanipatel.nd.
Menstrual pain (dysmenorrhea) and PMS (premenstrual syndrome) affect many women worldwide. While these symptoms are common, they should not be dismissed as normal if they significantly impact your quality of life. Fortunately, various treatment options, including lifestyle changes and nutraceutical supplementation, can help alleviate these symptoms and improve your overall well-being.
Managing PMS Symptoms
PMS symptoms typically occur during the luteal phase or menstruation and may include fatigue, bloating, breast tenderness, menstrual cramps, cravings, appetite changes, mood swings, and irritability. Here are some strategies to help reduce their intensity:
Managing Menstrual Pain
Menstrual pain can be classified as either primary or secondary dysmenorrhea. Secondary dysmenorrhea is often linked to conditions such as endometriosis or adenomyosis, and its treatment may differ. Here are some ways to manage menstrual pain:
If your menstrual pain is severe, persistent, or unresponsive to pain medication—especially if it occurs outside of menstruation—it may be necessary to investigate potential underlying causes. Diagnostic measures such as a transvaginal ultrasound and blood tests (assessing thyroid function, hormone levels, Vitamin D, and iron) can provide valuable insights.
If PMS symptoms and menstrual pain are affecting your quality of life, a holistic approach that supports your body, balances your hormones, and optimizes lifestyle choices can be beneficial.
Let’s embark on your health journey together!
Dr. Ishani Patel is a board certified Naturopathic Doctor who has a clinical focus in women’s health, hormones, digestive health, and autoimmunity. She is dedicated to helping her patients determine the root cause of their health concerns, help them find balance in their life, prevent disease or a worsening of their health conditions, and help them live their optimal state of health.
You can connect with Dr. Patel through her website drishanipatelnd.com, by email at ishanipatelnd@gmail.com, or reaching out to her on Instagram @drishanipatel.nd.
Breakfast is arguably the most important meal of the day! What you chose to have in the morning will impact your energy levels throughout the day, the amount of cravings you have and has the potential to fire up your metabolism after an overnight fast with the right nutrients.
Your metabolism runs on 3 major macro groups – Protein (building of body substances), Carbohydrates (mainly used for energy) and Fat (cellular health +energy). It also requires water, minerals, electrolytes and trace elements. A deficiency in any of these can results in decreased metabolic function, hormonal imbalances and low energy.
When you skip breakfast, or have something that doesn’t provide the necessary fuel, your tank may be either running on empty or like a regular car running on diesel fuel.
What does your “fuel tank” actually need to get you revved up and energized for the day?
It needs a balanced breakfast consisting of a quality source of protein, carbohydrates that won’t spike your blood sugar (which would lead to cravings and an energy dip later) and healthy fats.
Here are 3 simple ideas of Breakfasts that will leave you energized and satiated for hours:
Helpful hint: Oats are heavily sprayed with the roundup Glyphosate which has been linked to cancer. For more information about Glyphosate check out this page. This is why I recommend getting the Rolled Oats from One Degree Organics (can be found at Costco), which are Glyphosate-free AND sprouted, meaning they are easier to digest!
Helpful hint: If using a Protein Powder please make sure there are no refined sugars in there. I generally also don’t recommend Whey protein as it’s hard to digest for many people and may contribute to inflammation. I personally love the Sunwarrior Warrior Blend protein and Genuine Health also makes a great Fermented Organic Vegan Proteins+ formula.
Helpful hint: Many breads that are labeled “whole grain” are not actually whole grain. They may contain some whole grains but can also have a large percentage of starchy processed grains that spike blood sugar, insulin levels and lead to low energy, poor metabolic health and weight gain. You must start read ingredient lists if you want to truly understand what’s it your food – labelling can be so misleading! Etziekel bread is a great option and is usually found in the freezer section of a health section in a grocery store.
Making small tweaks to your Breakfast favorites to ensure you have a Protein + low-Glycemic Carbohydrate + Good Fat can make a HUGE difference in how you feel the rest of the day. Do not underestimate the power of these small changes!
If you try any of these and notice a change I’d love to hear from you – you can find me on Instagram @annsirenkonutrition or connect with me via e-mail at info@annsirenko.com
Ann is a Holistic Nutritionist, Metabolic Balance Coach, and thyroid guru who helps women gain confidence in how they look and feel in their bodies. Ann works with a scientifically backed metabolic approach to nutrition by using in-depth analysis of blood chemistry to develop truly unique plans to balance each client’s metabolism. The blood analysis reveals exactly which foods are right for each client to lose weight, and improve hormonal balance, energy levels, and gut health without any pills, shakes, or yo-yo diets. Analysis of blood chemistry + food chemistry = your unique metabolic prescription! Ann is also passionate about thyroid health, as she herself has experienced the lonely and confusing journey that came with the diagnosis of an autoimmune thyroid disorder, and loves supporting other women who may be struggling with thyroid related symptoms.
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Our home is a reflection of us. We are busy, vibrant women living in a world that is always trying to draw us to the next best thing. The newest technology, the updated home accessories, and it can be hard to keep up if that is where our focus is. Our home is more than a house with fanciful things, it is home to our family. The place to let down the burdens of the day and get cozy, to restore, and nurture ourselves and one another. Where friends come to gather and share stories and laughter while dining or grazing.
How can you maintain a sense of warmth and calm during the upcoming season? A time when events and gatherings increase. Here are a few tips:
It is my hope that when life gets a bit crazy that my home is able to be a safe haven for my family and friends. Knowing that restoring calm and embracing warmth is possible. I would love to know how you create warmth and calm in your home.
In wellness and love,
Christie Hubble
Christie is a dynamic wellness practitioner. As the founder of Wellness Haven and Health Christie offers a circular approach to wellness with offerings that honour the seven principles of wellness: emotional, environmental, mental, occupational, physical, relational, and spiritual. Christie is a life skills coach, happiness coach, a breath work facilitator, as well as a medical aesthetician. Christie is joined by her daughter, Abigail, who offers home organization and a decluttering service. At Wellness Haven and Health we encourage and support others in their wellness journey.
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Do you dread that afternoon energy slump that leaves you reaching for a coffee or something sweet as a pick-me-up to get you through the rest of your day? We’ve all been there and there’s a very common reason why this energy crash happens that few understand.
It all comes down to your blood sugar. Now when I say blood sugar, I am not talking about Diabetes, which most people think of when I bring up this term. We all experience blood sugar fluctuation in response to what we eat, when we eat and influenced by certain lifestyle factors.
When you eat a meal (or have a drink or snack) your blood sugar will increase. How much it increases will really depend on what you ate and how quickly glucose is released from these foods and/or drinks into your blood stream.
Carbohydrates break down into glucose in our blood stream. The carbohydrates with short chains (a.k.a. simple Carbohydrates) reach the bloodstream much more quickly than those with long-chain (a.k.a. complex Carbohydrates), resulting in higher blood sugar spikes.
Simple Carbohydrates are things like your cookies, pastries, most breads and cereal products, processed grains and their flours, white rice, refined sugar, candy, soda, corn syrup and high-fructose syrup, fruit juice concentrate and many processed foods.
Complex Carbohydrates include things like legumes, whole grains, beans, vegetables, and fruit. A whole grain in it’s unprocessed form contains three parts and when it’s processed two of those parts are stripped away and you’re left with the blood-sugar spiking starchy part that is void of nutrients.
Repeated blood sugar spikes, over time, can lead to a condition called Hypoglycemia. I want you to think of it like a rollercoaster – your blood sugar spikes up after a meal, and then it crashes in a few hours, leaving you with low energy, cravings, and irritability. We all know that “hangry” feeling right?! Over time this also has a negative impact on your hormonal balance, especially your stress hormone Cortisol and sex hormones.
Learning to stabilize this blood sugar rollercoaster is really the key if you want to feel more stable energy throughout the day, have less cravings, support weight-loss and better hormone health.
Here are three simple tips that will help stabilize your blood sugar levels:
Navigating proper nutrition can be confusing in today’s day and age with so much conflicting information. It can leave you feeling overwhelmed and lost on what’s right for your unique body. If you find yourself in a place where nothing seems to be working for you, and you want to know which foods will support your unique needs, I encourage you to check out the Metabolic Balance Program. This is a fully customized nutrition program for women looking to support weight-loss, better hormone balance, energy levels and digestion. Best of all your plan will be entirely based on the chemistry of your bloodwork, taking out all the guesswork!
Ann is a Holistic Nutritionist, Metabolic Balance Coach, and thyroid guru who helps women gain confidence in how they look and feel in their bodies. Ann works with a scientifically backed metabolic approach to nutrition by using in-depth analysis of blood chemistry to develop truly unique plans to balance each client’s metabolism. The blood analysis reveals exactly which foods are right for each client to lose weight, and improve hormonal balance, energy levels, and gut health without any pills, shakes, or yo-yo diets. Analysis of blood chemistry + food chemistry = your unique metabolic prescription! Ann is also passionate about thyroid health, as she herself has experienced the lonely and confusing journey that came with the diagnosis of an autoimmune thyroid disorder, and loves supporting other women who may be struggling with thyroid related symptoms.
If you’re reading this, chances are you feel much like I did 18 months ago—overwhelmed, overworked, underappreciated, and disconnected. You go through your days managing your life and everyone else’s, rather than truly living it.
Does it ever feel like no matter how much you accomplish, it’s never enough? Do you find yourself giving endlessly to others, but feel drained and disconnected when it comes to your own needs?
The title of this article likely caught your attention because, deep down, you’re ready for a change. You want to break free from this vicious cycle of operating in survival mode and start shifting your reality. Am I right?
One of the most common questions I hear from women seeking transformation is: “Where do I start?”
No matter their circumstances, my answer is always the same: Start with personal accountability.
What is Personal Accountability?
Personal accountability is about stepping into ownership of your experiences in life. It’s recognizing that you have the power to choose how you respond to the events and situations you face and understanding that those choices shape your reality. It’s about shifting your mental narrative to one that supports the life you desire, rather than one that reinforces powerlessness.
At its core, personal accountability is the foundation of SELF-leadership—a crucial skill for anyone looking to live with alignment and intention. While we won’t dive into SELF-leadership in this article, it involves intentionally guiding your thoughts, emotions, and behaviours in alignment with your core values, purpose, and desired outcomes.
Now that we understand personal accountability and why it matters, let’s look at 6 simple strategies you can start applying in your life today.
We can’t change what we aren’t aware of or willing to accept; real transformation starts with self-awareness. Begin by identifying the areas of your life where you feel stuck or unsatisfied.
Once you’ve identified these areas, ask yourself the following questions:
Once you identify the areas where you feel stuck and recognize some underlying root causes, you can take intentional steps to break the pattern. Personal accountability begins with recognizing where you need to make a change.
When you embrace personal accountability, you move from feeling like life happens to you, to realizing that life is something you actively create. Often, we become stuck when we identify with our past experiences, instead of shifting our focus toward intentionally taking action to create the life we desire.
Remember: Our current reality is the result of our past decisions, and our future is actively being shaped by the choices we make today. Every day presents a new opportunity to create the future you desire. Start now.
To take this a step further, the next time you feel stuck, instead of asking, “Why is this happening to me?” ask, “What is this teaching me? How can I respond in a way that aligns with the outcome I want?”
Our thoughts are powerful and have so much influence over our reality. This step is about noticing when you fall into negative thinking patterns, such as “This is just the way things are” or “I have no control over this.”
When this happens, pause and reframe. Ask yourself, “Are these thoughts actually based in truth?”
Then, choose thoughts that empower you: “I have the power to respond differently” or “I can influence the change I am seeking by rewiring my thoughts.”
Learning to shift your mental narrative is essential to taking responsibility for the life you want. It requires the willingness to recognize limiting beliefs, challenge them, and let them go.
Taking responsibility for your life means prioritizing choices and taking actions that align with the version of yourself you want to become. It’s about showing up, day after day, especially when it’s uncomfortable, and making decisions from a place of empowerment, rather than fear or discomfort.
When and only when you are willing to accept that you are the only one who has the power to shape your life, you reclaim your agency and become empowered to keep moving forward.
Personal accountability isn’t about perfection; it’s about making progress. By building a habit of compassionate self-reflection, you’ll stay committed to the process of creating the lasting changes you desire.
At the end of each day, ask yourself: “Did I make choices that align with the person I want to become?” rather than “Did I accomplish my goal?” Learning to move away from black-and-white thinking and pausing to celebrate all wins, big or small, builds the momentum needed for continued personal growth.
Many of us become so focused on the “goal” or “desired outcome” that we lose sight of the journey itself—and all the growth that happens along the way. I know firsthand the importance of fully embracing the journey, approaching it with a beginner’s mind, and detaching from desired outcomes. The real magic and alignment happens when we remain flexible and committed to ourselves from a growth perspective, rather than an outcome-driven one.
Part of the magic of living in alignment with your true self is trusting the process and believing in something bigger than you.
If there’s one key takeaway from all of this, let it be this: Surrender control, detach from expectations, embrace the journey, and watch the magic unfold.
The Path to Joy and Abundance Begins with Personal Accountability
To create the life you truly desire—one filled with joy, abundance, and purpose—the first step is to take full ownership of your experience. When you do, you’ll start to see that every choice you make will either bring you closer to the life you want or keep you further from it. The choice is yours.
I hope this article has inspired you and sparked the motivation to start applying these personal accountability strategies in your life today.
If you found this article helpful and want to dive deeper, I’d love to connect! Join me at my Downtown Toronto Happy Healthy Women events, visit my website, or follow me on Instagram for more resources and support on your journey!
Emily Zhuang is a Certified Health Coach, Lifestyle Transformation Coach, and creator of The Balance and Thrive Method. Emily specializes in empowering purpose-driven female entrepreneurs to define their self-worth and gain the confidence they deserve, so they can create the life they truly desire. By guiding women to realign their time, energy, and resources inward, Emily enables them to live in alignment with their true purpose, and experience a life of freedom and true fulfillment. Her client-centered approach focuses on whole-person health, addressing the mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual states of being, utilizing sustainable lifestyle shifts rooted in her Core Pillars of Health to deliver lasting results.
Creating sustainable health goals is key to long-term optimal health and wellness. The first step is ask yourself what does the healthy YOU look like?
What does this person look like? How does she feel waking up every day? What is her lifestyle like? What are habits you have as your healthiest self? This step doesn’t just allow you to envision the person you want to become, but it also provides you the opportunity to picture a reality where maintaining a healthy lifestyle does not feel like a chore; but instead, a tangible and fulfilling lifestyle.
That person you want to become is the star you are reaching for in the sky. You have a goal, so let’s talk about how to reach that star. The roadmap to get there is just as important as the end goal itself. Creating that roadmap and all the steps, make it a structured unique pathway suited for you.
Now that we know what your healthiest self looks like, the next step is to create tangible goals. With every goal you set, you want to make sure you can measure your progress. Whether it is weight changes, energy, or bowel movements, ensure your objectives are measurable to help you stay motivated on continuing your health journey.
With these goals, you create several little goals on this roadmap. These little goals are less intimidating and more achievable. It is so much easier to think of losing 1 lb/week than losing 30 lbs in 1 month. Your goals are doable, and you can now celebrate all of these little wins on your wellness journey.
Next is making sure these goals are realistic and that they fit your lifestyle. Your lifestyle is unique, and that is why your goals need to be unique as well. It also allows you to implement these goals in your day to day life, balancing work with your personal life, and optimizing both of these aspects of your lifestyle. Creating these realistic goals helps you stay on that roadmap, despite obstacles that may come in the way.
So now you have a picture of what your healthiest self looks like, you have determined what that roadmap to your healthiest self looks like, you have created tangible goals that are realistic and measurable, and you have the dedication to start this journey; so, what are you waiting for? Let’s start your health journey together!
Dr. Ishani Patel is a board certified Naturopathic Doctor practicing in Toronto, Ontario. She has taken a clinical interest in women’s health, fertility, endometriosis, hormonal imbalances, gastrointestinal health, fibromyalgia, and autoimmune-related concerns. Dr. Ishani has always believed that with commitment, education, and encouragement, the body can repair itself back to a state of health and wellness. She utilizes a combination of traditional medicine with evidence based medicine, to put all the puzzle pieces together and determine the root cause of your health concerns.
Ultimately, she is dedicated to assisting her patients in achieving their health goals, establishing a long-term plan for wellness, and helping them feel like their best selves!
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Journaling can work wonders. It's such a simple thing to do, and when you do it consistently, you can gain so many amazing benefits from putting pen to paper.
I remember as a little girl how excited I was to get my very first diary, I was 7 or 8 years old. It was a little white book with a unicorn on the front, rainbow colored pages and a lock for privacy of course, because at that age I had top secret info. that not another soul should have access too.
I remember not having many friends I could relate to, so I wrote in my journal. I even wrote out my own alphabet and started writing in my own symbolic language but it didn't stick. I loved the idea of having a book where I could write whatever I thought or felt and it was for my eyes only.
From there I continued to write in diaries & journals, I never stopped, there was never a time in my life when I didn't have something I was writing in, even if it meant a device to pull out and type out my thoughts in the middle of the night.
I have a natural tendency to be intentional with my writing, what would prompt me to write in my teens was the inner turmoil I was experiencing and the epiphanies that came from learning the hard way. I would then jot it down as a time stamp of the moment I experienced a personal revelation.
As I continued to evolve as a soul, so did my journaling practice and I realized that I was channeling information through my writing. Journaling is a sacred practice for me and has become an integral part of my path to self-mastery.
I would love to share my thoughts & experience on how journaling can help individuals on a deeper level.
1. When we consciously make time to journal, we are signaling to our brain that we are putting ourselves first by removing distractions & giving ourselves a clean canvas to express our thoughts. This act is calming because there are fewer stimuli, which means you're not having to constantly react and you can focus in on one thing, putting pen to paper.
2. Prioritizing time for yourself to journal will also help you feel at ease because it gives you an outlet to "mind dump". I find this is particularly helpful before bed or when you need to move on to a new task that requires critical thinking. When you're able to get your thoughts out on paper, you're releasing that energy and you will actually feel lighter with a clearer mind.
3. The act of writing can put you into a trance like state, this is often when one would experience intuitive writing or subconscious writing, this type of writing might not always make sense when you read it, but over time you may find some golden nuggets scattered throughout your diary pages.
4. When you are journaling with expressive writing, you are allowing your emotions to flow out of you which can help you regulate your emotions, become more conscious of your triggers and strengthen your emotional intelligence as a result. Of course, this takes your willingness to grow, adapt & implement lessons you've learned and nothing is a guarantee just because you journal.
5. Journaling can be an effective way to reduce stress. Writing your thoughts & feelings in an open, honest and expressive way can help you gain more clarity, understand the root cause of your issues & help you let go of the past so you can move forward with a more positive outlook. The fact that journaling can contribute to stress reduction also means that this will help boost your immune system making you more resilient.
6. Last but certainly not least, journaling can help you improve your writing and communication skills. This is a gift to yourself and others because this could mean your personal and professional relationships will be enriched by your ability to communicate your thoughts & feelings in a healthy and concise manner.
I hope I was able to inspire you to start your own journaling practice or fuel your fire to continue doing what you're doing.
Just remember to be gentle with yourself no matter where you are on your path. There is no right or wrong when it comes to journaling and this practice should support your personal growth.
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As a high-achieving woman entrepreneur, you're no stranger to setting ambitious goals and pushing boundaries. But have you ever wondered why, despite your remarkable accomplishments, you sometimes find yourself doubting your abilities or focusing on perceived shortcomings? The answer might lie in a fascinating cognitive phenomenon called confirmation bias. In this post, we'll explore how understanding and leveraging this bias can be a game-changer for your entrepreneurial journey.
What is Confirmation Bias?
Confirmation bias is our brain's tendency to seek out, interpret, and remember information that confirms our existing beliefs while disregarding contradictory evidence. While this can sometimes lead to errors in judgment, it also presents a powerful opportunity for personal growth and achievement – especially for driven women like you who are shaping the business world.
The Double-Edged Sword for Women Entrepreneurs
As a woman entrepreneur, you may have experienced how confirmation bias can work against you:
But here's the exciting part: once you understand confirmation bias, you can flip the script and use it to your advantage.
Strategies to Harness Confirmation Bias for Your Success
Instead of dwelling on perceived shortcomings, actively seek evidence of your competence and resilience. Remember that pitch you nailed? The investor who believed in your vision? The team you've built from the ground up? These aren't flukes – they're proof of your capabilities.
Action Step: Create a "Success Journal" where you document your wins, big and small. Review it regularly, especially before important meetings or decisions.
Surround yourself with diverse perspectives that challenge your assumptions and broaden your horizons. Seek out mentors, join women's entrepreneurship groups, and engage with peers who inspire and push you to grow.
Action Step: Attend at least one networking event or conference per quarter focused on women in business or your specific industry.
Use confirmation bias to your advantage by clearly defining your goals and visualizing success. When you prime your brain to look for opportunities aligned with your vision, you'll be amazed at what you start to notice and attract.
Action Step: Create a vision board for your business goals. Include images of women leaders you admire, representations of your target revenue, and symbols of the impact you want to make.
When you catch yourself in a spiral of self-doubt, pause and ask: "Is this thought helping or hindering my success?" Replace limiting beliefs with empowering affirmations that reflect the leader you are becoming.
Action Step: Develop a set of personal mantras tailored to your entrepreneurial journey. Examples might include: "I am innovative and resilient" or "My unique perspective is my superpower."
Instead of fearing criticism, view it as valuable data for growth. Actively seek feedback from mentors, clients, and team members. When you receive praise, don't brush it off – internalize it as evidence of your capabilities. Feedback is a gift, and I’ll never forget the mentor who helped me understand this notion.
Action Step: Implement a regular feedback loop in your business, both for giving and receiving constructive input.
The Ripple Effect of Your Success
By harnessing confirmation bias for positive change, you're not just transforming your own entrepreneurial journey – you're paving the way for other women in business. Your success challenges societal biases and creates a ripple effect of inspiration.
Remember, the key to leveraging confirmation bias lies in consciously directing your focus toward the outcomes you wish to manifest. By doing so, you're not just building a successful business; you're reshaping the landscape and inspiring women entrepreneurs everywhere.
Are you ready to harness the power of your mind and take your business to new heights? The world is waiting for your unique vision and leadership.
Elaine Dickens, MA, Registered Psychotherapist, is a dedicated advocate for high performers and recovering perfectionists seeking to overcome burnout and deepen their emotional connection with others. Through her practice, Live Inspired Wellness, Elaine combines evidence-based strategies with actionable insights to guide clients toward sustainable success and well-being. Her expertise in mindset optimization, emotional intelligence, and ADHD empowers ambitious professionals to thrive both personally and professionally. Elaine's mission is to reshape the narrative around high achievement, proving that peak performance and personal fulfillment can coexist harmoniously. For inspiring resources on mindset and emotional wellness, follow Live Inspired Therapist on Instagram or visit our website.
